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Karen Effie's avatar

I have enjoyed this post. I wrote a sort of book on sex magic from a LHP perspective. I was never brought up with religion so blasphemy never appealed to me, but I was interested in transgression. I wrote about High Transgression vs Low Transgression; similar ideas.

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John Baometrus's avatar

Thank you for another piece that sticks in my craw in a good way. Thanks for the bones to chew on.

I do think a distinction should be drawn between actual, material, physical violence and spiritual, political, ideological violence - but based on what you've written here, you might disagree that the latter is *actually violent.*

I remembered Marshall Rosenberg *Non-violent Communication* today, and thought yes, there are ways to be subtly violent without being overtly so. In my mind, the important point you're making is that we have become so sensitive and accustomed to relative peace and prosperity that we're uncomfortable with and overreacting to each other's speech and ideas in ways that are exacerbating things and becoming barriers to important discussion.

The concept of blasphemy as a way to reclaim personal empowerment and sovereignty after religious abuse or enmeshment is a breath of fresh air to me. I look back on the things I did after falling away from my former faith and now see them with a new light of compassion and understanding. If only someone had been there (and there were a few who validated) to support me through a very natural process of cutting bindings and desecrating boundaries that I had previously been so deeply conditioned in as to be blind to how deep their hooks were into me. Having been through what I have, I have a sincere desire to help others through similar existential and spiritual crises, in whatever ways I can, including ritual, if it would be helpful. All while understanding the very real consequences of breaking with such deep, identity- and belonging-based stuff. Support groups for people breaking up with groups. It's quite challenging in our current siloed, individualistic, independence-valuing culture and society.

Thanks again. 🙏 You're a treasure.

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